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MyAdvo Advocacy Guide


Last updated on July 7, 2024

Words by the MyAdvo Team, Medically reviewed by:

Dr. Navya Mysore

What are fibroids?
Fibroids, also known as uterine leiomyomas or myomas, are growths that develop in or on the muscular wall of a woman's uterus. They are almost always benign (non-cancerous). They can be small like seeds or large enough to distort the uterus. Made of muscle and fibrous tissue, fibroids can appear as a single growth or in clusters. They are a chronic condition that can recur despite treatment, though it does not always happen. Hysterectomy, removal of the uterus, is the only definitive cure for fibroids but can have serious risks and long-term side effects, including impacts on fertility. Other treatments with fewer complications are available, but more research is needed to find safer, less drastic definitive cures beyond hysterectomy. Meanwhile, fibroid treatment should be tailored to individual symptoms, fibroid size and location, and the patient's health and life goals.
What are the different types of fibroids?

Fibroids are categorized based on their location in the uterus:

  • Intramural Fibroids: Grow within the uterine wall, the most common type.

  • Subserosal Fibroids: Develop on the outer surface of the uterus, extending into the pelvis.

  • Submucosal Fibroids: Form just beneath the inner lining of the uterus, potentially causing heavy menstrual bleeding even if small.

  • Pedunculated Fibroids: Attached by a stalk to the uterine wall.


Understanding the size of fibroids is crucial for determining the appropriate treatment and management plan.

  • Small Fibroids: Typically less than 1-2 cm in diameter (pea-sized).

  • Medium Fibroids: Ranging from 2 to 6 cm in diameter (cherry to lemon-sized).

  • Large Fibroids: Greater than 6 cm in diameter (orange-sized or larger). More likely to cause significant symptoms and complications, often requiring medical intervention.



  • Understanding endometriosis is your first step toward empowerment. Dive deep into credible resources to educate yourself on this complex condition. Websites like and, for example, offer a wealth of credible information tailored for patients. Knowledge is power, and the more you know, the better you can advocate for yourself.

  • Prepare for doctor appointments with confidence. Approach your healthcare provider with a set of prepared questions to assess their familiarity and experience with endometriosis, such as the number of endometriosis patients they have treated, their diagnostic processes, and treatment approaches. This not only gauges their expertise but also opens a dialogue for a collaborative treatment plan


Who gets endometriosis?
Endometriosis can affect anyone who menstruates, and typically occurs during the reproductive years (from first period through menopause). An estimated 10% of people with a uterus are affected by endometriosis globally. Although rare, endometriosis has been found in individuals who do not or no longer menstruate, such as after hysterectomy.

Up to 80%


What are the symptoms of endometriosis?

Symptoms can vary from person to person and some people may have no symptoms at all.  


Common symptoms include:

  • Heavy bleeding 

  • Severe cramps

  • Chronic lower back and pelvic pain

  • Pain/bleeding during or after intercourse

  • Spotting or bleeding between periods

  • Chronic abdominal pain

  • Painful bowel movements or urination during your period and in between your period

  • Difficulty getting pregnant

  • Slightly higher incidence of early miscarriage


Other symptoms that occur more commonly before or during a period include fatigue, diarrhea, constipation, bloating or nausea. 


Although these symptoms can happen at any time, they often become more severe before or during menstruation. However, the intensity of pain does not indicate the severity of endometriosis. Someone with mild endometriosis can experience severe pain, while someone with advanced endometriosis could have little or none. Symptoms can also depend on the location of endometriosis and which organs are involved. Because these can overlap with other conditions, endometriosis is particularly challenging to diagnose based on symptoms alone. 



  • Listen to your body; your pain is valid. When it comes to periods, severe pain is NOT okay. If you find yourself struggling with severe cramps, heavy bleeding, or any of the symptoms mentioned, it's essential to take them seriously no matter if you’ve been told something else, or that it’s “just in your head.” You are not overreacting. Remember, you know your body best.

  • Document everything. Take control by tracking your symptoms–in a journal, in your phone, or using a fertility or period tracker’s comments sections. This information is a crucial starting point for your healthcare provider to identify patterns and assess whether your symptoms could be caused by a different condition, or possibly endometriosis. Remember, even if your pain is in places that seem to suggest issues in other parts of the body (like your GI system, or lower back), don't discount endometriosis just yet.

How do you know if you have endometriosis?

Diagnosing endometriosis can involve a lot of detective work between you and your health care provider. In addition to a pelvic exam, tests such as imaging (ultrasound and MRI) can help to gather information and rule out other possible conditions. Imaging can spot bigger issues like endometriosis-related cysts (endometriomas), but often will not detect smaller lesions. 


Currently, the only way to officially confirm a diagnosis of endometriosis is with a surgical procedure called laparoscopy. This is a type of minimally invasive surgery in which your surgeon  inserts a thin tube with a camera and light through a small incision in your abdomen. This way, they can take a look inside the pelvic cavity and examine organs for signs of endometriosis, and biopsy any tissue they find. 

  • Understand your diagnostic options thoroughly. Educate yourself on diagnostic options, and ask your doctor about next steps for testing to evaluate your symptoms. Recognize the limitations and capabilities of non-invasive tests like ultrasounds and MRIs, and understand that while they can identify larger issues, they might not detect all manifestations of endometriosis. Know when it's time to get a second option: if your doctor has ruled out other possible causes of your symptoms, and endometriosis remains a possibility, it is not too soon to seek a second opinion or an endometriosis specialist for a more comprehensive evaluation. Consider consulting with an endometriosis excision specialist in case surgery is needed.

  • Prepare for meaningful conversations with your healthcare provider. Before your appointment, compile a list of questions that can help you assess your healthcare provider’s experience and approach to diagnosing endometriosis. Ask about their familiarity with the latest endometriosis research and treatment options, and their endometriosis specialist referrals should you need a more comprehensive evaluation or to consider surgery. This can help ensure that your healthcare provider is well-equipped to guide you through the diagnosis and treatment journey.

  • Be wary of dismissive attitudes. Statements that downplay your pain, attribute symptoms solely to stress, or outright deny the possibility of endometriosis without thorough investigation are red flags. Remember, a healthcare provider that definitively rules out endometriosis despite symptoms consistent with the condition, without recommending or proceeding with a laparoscopy warrants a second opinion from an endometriosis specialist. A laparoscopy is currently the gold standard for diagnosing endometriosis.

  • Consider an endometriosis excision specialist. Not all gynecologists are endometriosis specialists. If you feel your symptoms and concerns  are not being adequately addressed or if surgery becomes a necessary step for diagnosis or treatment, seeking out a specialist who performs endometriosis excision is crucial . These specialists have specific training and experience in surgically removing endometriosis lesions, including the most complex of cases, and are equipped to handle any type of endometriosis they may uncover during laparoscopy. This technical expertise  can lead to better outcomes for pain relief and fertility.


Are there risk factors? 

Risk factors include: family history, abnormal or heavy bleeding, starting your period at an early age, a history of infertility, and multiple pregnancies and births. The cause of endometriosis is unknown. 



  • Start conversations within your family. 7X is the amount of increased genetic risk for sisters and mother/daughter relationships. If endometriosis is suspected or you're curious about your own risk factors, consider having open discussions with female relatives such as your mother, sisters, aunts, and grandmothers. Ask if they have experienced symptoms similar to those associated with endometriosis or if they have been diagnosed with the condition. This can help you understand if there is a family history.

  • Explore reproductive health histories. Another valuable conversation involves discussing reproductive histories with your family members, particularly focusing on any challenges they may have faced in conceiving. This can include questions about the age they first got their period, the nature of their menstrual cycles (e.g., heavy or abnormal bleeding), and their pregnancy journeys. Understanding these aspects can provide insights into potential hereditary patterns that could affect your health.

How is endometriosis treated?

Treatment for endometriosis is personalized; there’s no one-size-fits-all treatment option.


Some options include: 

  • Over the counter or prescription pain medication

  • Hormonal therapy (birth control pills, IUDs, gonadotropin-releasing hormone (GnRH) agonists and antagonists, progestin therapy)

  • Surgeries such as ablation (destroying the tissue), excision (cutting and removing the tissue), and hysterectomy (removal of the uterus) 

Excision surgery is considered the gold standard of endometriosis treatment. But unfortunately, none of the available treatment options, including hysterectomy, is considered a cure. Even with surgical interventions, lesions can return. One study showed that almost 1/3 of people require one or more additional surgeries within 10 years of their first excision surgery. 

You and your healthcare provider can discuss your options and decide what makes the most sense for you. Communication is an essential aspect of care—if you feel as though your goals or needs aren’t being considered, it might be time to switch healthcare providers. 



  • Prepare specific questions for your doctor about treatment options. If your doctor suspects endometriosis, prepare questions about treatment options and next steps. Identify what is important to you, what your goals are in managing your symptoms/ condition, and any concerns you may have about treatment. Ask your doctor to map out a treatment timeline, including how long to monitor your symptoms before considering an alternative approach or second opinion. Talk through what that next alternative approach would be, or which specialist they may refer you to. Don't wait until your symptoms are debilitating to have a treatment plan in place!

  • Consider recording medical appointments. Record appointments by respectfully asking your doctor if it's okay with them. This is perfectly legal! Recording will help you to better remember their insights and recommendations, what next steps look like after the appointment, as well as the questions you want to ask.

  • Stay open to second opinions. Stay open to second opinions. Even if this is your OBGYN of 10+ years and you trust them, endometriosis is a highly complex condition that is often best handled by a specialist.

What complications can occur with endometriosis?

The main complication of endometriosis is difficulty getting pregnant. In fact, about 50% of women experiencing infertility have endometriosis. In some cases, endometriosis can directly obstruct reproductive organs like the fallopian tubes. It can also indirectly affect fertility by damaging the sperm or egg​​. Many people with mild-to-moderate endometriosis are still able to conceive and carry to term. Additional complications include mental health issues, financial complications, depending on a patients’ insurance, and a difficult quality of life.

  • Inform yourself about fertility preservation and assisted reproductive technologies. Regardless of your current family planning intentions, understanding the full spectrum of fertility options is empowering. This includes learning about egg or embryo freezing, Intrauterine Insemination (IUI), In Vitro Fertilization (IVF), and surrogacy among other techniques. Having this knowledge at hand equips you to make decisions that align with your future desires and circumstances. Remember, planning for the future starts today. Decisions regarding fertility can seem distant, especially if you're not currently trying to conceive. However, understanding and considering your options early on provides you with the widest range of choices later. It's about giving your future self the flexibility and freedom to make decisions that reflect your desires and circumstances at that time.

  • Seek expertise from a Reproductive Endocrinologist. If you are considering pregnancy now or in the future, consulting with a Reproductive Endocrinologist who has experience with endometriosis can be invaluable. These specialists can offer tailored advice and treatment plans that consider the impact of endometriosis on fertility, enhancing your chances of conceiving and sustaining a pregnancy.

  • Organize and understand your medical records. Before consulting a new healthcare provider or seeking a second opinion, ensure you have access to your complete medical history. This may involve requesting the transfer of records from your current physician's office or accessing them through a patient portal. Familiarize yourself with the details of your medical history, as this information is crucial for any specialist to understand your case fully and provide the most appropriate advice or treatment. Keeping a personal copy of your medical records, including any diagnostic tests, treatment plans, and surgical reports, puts you in a stronger position to manage your health proactively. It ensures you're prepared to discuss your history in detail with any new healthcare provider and make informed decisions based on your comprehensive medical background.


Frequently Asked Questions

  • Can endometriosis be cured? Currently, there is no cure for endometriosis, but treatments can help manage symptoms.

  • Does endometriosis affect fertility? Yes, endometriosis can affect fertility, but many can still conceive and carry to term.

  • Is endometriosis related to cancer? Endometriosis itself is a benign (non-cancerous) condition. However, research suggests that women with endometriosis may have a slightly increased risk of certain types of cancer, including ovarian cancer. It's important to discuss these risks with your healthcare provider and undergo regular check-ups.

  • What are my options if pain management doesn't work? If the approaches you’ve tried aren’t working, make an appointment with your healthcare provider to determine what other options are available. Consider seeking a second opinion from an endometriosis specialist.

  • Does pregnancy impact/cure endometriosis? Pregnancy does not cure endometriosis. For some women, the hormonal rollercoaster of pregnancy can offer some relief from symptoms but it’s more like hitting the pause button than a permanent “off” switch. Once you are no longer pregnant, your symptoms can start to slowly return into the postpartum period and onwards.

Why MyAdvo Cares

Our mission at MyAdvo is to empower women to advocate for their health. We are committed to providing reliable, compassionate guidance and helping you navigate your condition with resources, support, and a community that understands. Remember, you are an integral part of your care team. Taking an active role in your treatment planning, staying informed, and maintaining open lines of communication with your healthcare provider are key to managing endometriosis. Your well-being is paramount, and ensuring your treatment plan reflects your needs, preferences, and lifestyle is essential for your quality of life.


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Updated April 1st, 2024.

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